Why Men Should Apologize First by Andre Batiste

Why Men Should be the first to apologize to their wives, fiancées, girlfriends, etc...

Men should always take the lead in everything pertaining to their relationships because that is our divine appointed positions. We as men are sometimes reluctant to say "I'm sorry" or "forgive me", for different reasons of course. Sometimes it's an issue of pride, especially if we have extended experience with our mates, most men have an apologetic mindset at the beginning of a new relationship but the more experiences we share together, we allow ourselves to become too familiar with our women and they say that "familiarity breeds contempt", which I think all of us are aquatinted with. The bow begins to break once we allow that contempt to fester and grow a mind of it's own with very strong, adverse opinions that quickly turn in to accusations and at that point it becomes extremely hard to humble ourselves, even when we know we are wrong.

So what can we do? I'm glad you asked that question! We can actually practice saying "I'm sorry", not just do it because we are trying to win the girls heart but because we want to keep her heart forever and ever! So gentlemen start today by practicing on the one you love. The next time you have a skirmish, don't forget that no matter how brash she may seem, there's a tender heart waiting for you to stand in your divine place and love her beyond any words said because of her emotions. Practice until it becomes a part of who you are. If you do so you might just capture her heart and isn't that what we want! Cards, flowers, candy accompanied along with your words do amazing things! Ultimately she needs to know you care enough to tell her and show her you never meant to hurt her heart.